Reflection of the Month - June 2006

God Talk

If talking to God were like talking to my long-time friend Andrea, then we could pick up right where we left off, no matter how many weeks or months had passed since we last talked.

If I could talk to God like I talk to my old friend Catherine, then not only could I talk to God about anything, but I’d be compelled to talk honestly about my shortcomings and struggles. And I’d learn to recognize humor in everyday things, as humor would dominate the tone of long conversations.

If talking to God were like talking to my new friend Coy, then I would try, sometimes in vain, to listen more than I talk. Though fast friends, the more I learn about my friend the greater my respect for him and his character and the deeper my appreciation for his friendship.

If I could talk to God like I talk to my friend Jeff, then I could philosophize and theologize while trying to work out what I believe and make sense of a faith which sometimes wrestles with difficult questions to find order and beauty in the grief and chaos that life sometimes seems to be.

If talking to God were like talking to my friend Paul, then as I listened, I would observe incredible patience, kindness, and generosity towards others. I would hope that I could emulate this goodness in my relationships and that, like my friend, I would treat even strangers as friends.

If I could talk to God like I talk to my friend David, then I could vent a morning’s routine frustrations. And I could come away with a renewed gratitude and a reminder that no matter how unkind the morning has treated me, others suffer true injustice and unrest that I will probably never know.

If talking to God were like talking to my friends, then I could hardly wait for the next communion … Amen.

Chaplain Jennifer L. Bordenet, M.Div., BCC
Jennifer.bordenet@valleybaptist.net

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